The Phrase Dads Dislike Most on Father's Day and What to Say Instead

June 14, 2025 - 10:30

Dads often feel underappreciated, especially on Father's Day, according to scholar and therapist Charles C. Daniels. He highlights a common phrase that many fathers dread hearing on this special occasion: "You’re just like a mom." This statement, while intended as a compliment, can unintentionally undermine a father's unique role in the family.

Daniels emphasizes the importance of recognizing and celebrating the distinct contributions that fathers make. Instead of using phrases that may feel dismissive or generic, he encourages people to express gratitude in more meaningful ways. Simple acknowledgments, such as "I appreciate how you always support our family," or "Thank you for being a great dad," can resonate more deeply.

Moreover, engaging in activities that fathers enjoy or spending quality time together can enhance the day’s significance. Ultimately, Father's Day should be a time for authentic appreciation and connection, allowing dads to feel valued and understood.