25 June 2025
Have you ever noticed how your best ideas seem to pop into your head when you're not even trying? Maybe it’s in the shower, on a walk, or while staring at the clouds. That’s not just coincidence — it’s the magic of free time working its creative charm.
As parents, we’re often juggling a million things. We’re knee-deep in laundry, school runs, dinner prep, and bedtime stories. Free time? What even is that? But here’s the deal — carving out even a little unstructured time isn’t just good for you, it’s incredibly powerful for your kids, too. Especially when it comes to boosting creativity.
Let’s dive into how and why free time and creative thought are so deeply connected — and why that matters more than ever, especially in today’s overscheduled world.
Free time is any unscheduled, unstructured moment when you're not following instructions, meeting deadlines, or ticking off to-dos. It’s time when your mind can roam freely — you’re not consumed by tasks or goals. And for kids? It’s playtime that’s not dictated by a screen, school, or even well-meaning enrichment activities.
It’s those quiet moments where imagination is free to take the wheel.
When you’re on auto-pilot, like folding laundry or washing dishes, your brain taps into something called the "default mode network" (DMN). It's a fancy name for the system that gets lit up in your brain when you’re not focused on the outside world.
Here’s the cool part: when the DMN kicks in, your brain starts pulling together ideas, memories, and connections that it usually keeps separate. That’s where creativity sparks.
In other words — in the silence and boredom of free time, your brain gets loud with new thoughts.
Creativity helps children:
- Build resilience
- Express emotions in a healthy way
- Develop critical thinking skills
- Feel confident in their ideas
And do you know what fuels all that beautiful creativity? Yup. Free time.
Soccer practice, piano lessons, coding camp — all awesome, no doubt. But when every second is packed, there's no room to breathe, let alone imagine.
Children need time to be bored. Yep, I said it. Boredom is the secret sauce! It’s in the stillness of “I don’t know what to do” that they start figuring out what they actually WANT to do.
Too many scheduled activities? That’s like watering a plant continuously without giving it time to absorb. The roots can’t grow deeper.
Here are a few reasons parents steer clear of unstructured time (it’s okay, I’ve been there too):
- Guilt: We worry we’re not “doing enough.”
- Fear of boredom: We think our kids will complain or get into trouble.
- Social pressure: Everyone else's child is taking Mandarin and fencing. Shouldn't mine?
But here’s the truth — giving your child unstructured time is one of the best things you can do for their growth.
Think of your brain like a garden. Constant planting and watering won’t help if there’s no sunlight or space to grow. Free time? That’s the sunlight. That’s where new ideas take root.
So let’s stop feeling guilty about giving our kids (and ourselves) time to just be. Because in that space — in the quiet cracks of the day — that’s where the magic happens.
Another study published in “Psychology of Aesthetics, Creativity, and the Arts” found that daydreaming boosts problem-solving and idea generation.
Basically, your brain is begging for a break.
- Build a fort together.
- Take a spontaneous nature walk.
- Lie on the grass and make up stories about clouds.
These are the moments your child will remember. Not the race to soccer practice. Not the third math worksheet. But the laughter, the silliness, the messy, beautiful freedom.
Give yourself and your child the gift of boredom. Let their minds wander. Make space for silence, silliness, and spontaneity. That’s where imagination lives. That’s where problem-solving grows wings. That’s where creative thought dances its brightest.
Because in the end, it’s not about filling every second — it’s about creating space for what really matters to come to life.
all images in this post were generated using AI tools
Category:
Encouraging CreativityAuthor:
Noah Sawyer